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Does My Mom Have Dementia: Signs to Watch For

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Key Takeaways

  • Dementia warning signs go beyond normal forgetfulness and affect daily activities.
  • Memory changes, communication problems, and behavioral shifts can indicate cognitive decline.
  • Early recognition helps your mom receive appropriate support and specialized care.
  • Memory care communities provide 24/7 support for seniors with dementia and Alzheimer’s.

Recognizing Early Signs of Dementia in Your Mom

Watching your mom struggle with tasks she’s done effortlessly for decades can be heartbreaking. You might wonder if her occasional forgetfulness is normal aging or something more serious. These moments of concern often signal the beginning of a journey many families face when cognitive changes affect their loved ones. At Barton House Nashville, we understand how challenging these observations can be for families seeking answers and support.

Dementia warning signs extend far beyond typical forgetfulness and create noticeable changes in how your mom thinks, communicates, and manages daily life. Recognizing these signs early can help you provide the support and specialized care she needs to maintain her dignity and quality of life. Understanding memory care options empowers you to take proactive steps for your mom’s well-being.

Memory Changes That Go Beyond Normal Forgetfulness

Everyone misplaces keys or forgets a name occasionally. However, memory loss associated with dementia creates persistent patterns that disrupt your mom’s daily routine. These changes affect her ability to learn new information and remember recent events.

You might notice your mom asking the same questions repeatedly, even within the same conversation. She may forget appointments shortly after making them or struggle to remember visits from family members. Important dates like birthdays or anniversaries might slip from her memory entirely.

Another concerning sign involves difficulty with familiar tasks she’s performed for years. Your mom might forget how to prepare her favorite recipe or become confused while doing laundry. These routine activities suddenly feel overwhelming because the step-by-step process becomes unclear in her mind.

Communication and Language Warning Signs

Language changes often appear gradually but become more noticeable over time. Your mom might pause mid-sentence, searching for common words that once came naturally. She may substitute incorrect words or create new terms when she can’t remember the right ones.

Following conversations becomes increasingly difficult for her. She might lose track of what others are saying or struggle to join group discussions. You may find yourself repeating information multiple times or speaking more slowly to help her understand. 

Confusion about time and place frequently accompanies communication problems. Your mom might get lost driving to familiar locations or become disoriented in her own neighborhood. She may not recognize the current season or forget what day it is, even when reminded recently.

Changes in Thinking and Decision-Making

Poor judgment becomes evident when your mom makes decisions that seem completely out of character. She might wear heavy coats in summer or shorts during winter. Financial choices may concern you, especially if she falls for telephone scams or makes unusually large purchases.

Personal hygiene and medical care might decline as she forgets these important routines. You may notice she’s wearing the same clothes for days or skipping medications she’s taken consistently for years. Understanding these behavioral changes helps you recognize when professional support becomes necessary.

Numbers and abstract concepts become particularly challenging. Balancing her checkbook, calculating tips, or understanding time measurements may cause confusion. Simple math problems that never troubled her before now seem impossible to solve.

Behavioral and Emotional Warning Signs

Personality changes can be among the most difficult symptoms to witness. Your mom might develop anxiety or fearfulness in situations that never bothered her before. Depression may set in as she becomes aware of her changing abilities.

Suspicion of family members or caregivers sometimes develops, leading to accusations about stolen items or harmful intentions. These beliefs feel very real to her, even when you know they’re unfounded. Respite care services can provide temporary relief while you navigate these challenging behaviors.

Social withdrawal often occurs as cognitive challenges make interactions feel overwhelming. Your mom might stop attending church, skip family gatherings, or lose interest in hobbies she once loved. She may need prompting to start basic activities like eating meals or getting dressed.

Physical and Spatial Awareness Issues

A frustrated senior puts their hand on their forehead, struggling to remember an important task.

Vision and coordination problems can develop as dementia affects different brain areas. Your mom might have trouble judging distances, leading to falls or difficulty navigating stairs. Reading becomes challenging, and she may struggle to recognize familiar faces.

Misplacing items in unusual locations becomes common. You might find her keys in the refrigerator or discover important documents in strange places. When she can’t locate these items, she may accuse others of taking them rather than recognizing she placed them there.

Balance and coordination issues can make walking unsteady. She might bump into furniture more often or have difficulty with tasks requiring fine motor skills like buttoning clothes or using utensils.

Finding Support Through Memory Care

If you recognize several of these warning signs, approaching your mom with compassion and understanding helps start important conversations about her care. Medical evaluation can provide clarity about her condition and treatment options available.

Memory care communities offer specialized support designed specifically for individuals with dementia, Alzheimer’s, and other cognitive disorders. These environments provide 24/7 support for seniors while maintaining their dignity and encouraging meaningful daily activities.

At Barton House Nashville, our memory care program creates a supportive environment where your mom can thrive despite cognitive challenges. Our trained staff understand the unique needs of residents with memory loss and provide personalized care in beautiful, secure surroundings. Contact us today to schedule a tour and discover how our community can support your family during this journey.

Written by Sherry Coss

Sherry has more than 20 years of experience with passion in the senior living industry. Her specialties include public relations, marketing, relationship building, communications, and social media. She thrives in an environment that requires creativity, planning, and leadership. Her dedication to caring for seniors goes beyond her professional expertise—she is deeply committed to enhancing the quality of life for older adults. Her compassionate approach, combined with her strategic skills, allows her to make a lasting impact in the lives of seniors and their families.

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